Ignoring or Forgetting Important Dates
In this age of technology, no one has any excuse for forgetting a special day with their partner; it’s super easy to add a reminder to your calendar. But, if a birthday or anniversary is forgotten, and it’s not the norm (and hopefully, it’s not the norm), consider what else is going on in your partner’s life. If they are working hard to give you a comfortable life, under extreme stress or suffer from an illness (either emotional or physical), then it’s probably not an issue of infidelity, but simply from having too much on their plate. But, if it continues, cheating may be what’s occupying their thoughts.
Maybe he HAS been spending all that extra time at the gym, because he’s looking rather H-O-T, and even dressing better.